After four years, two apartments, multiple job changes and a pandemic, partners Weslie and Patrick are beginning to realize that while their relationship has gotten serious, their approach to money is stuck in the friend zone. They discuss their opposing financial attitudes, what’s holding them back and how they can find common ground.
This episode’s expert is financial writer Jackie Lam, who specializes in relationships and the emotions surrounding money. She offers tips for other couples struggling to get on the same page about spending and saving.
Money differences don’t have to be a dealbreaker—try to use them as an opportunity to help each another grow.
If you and your partner have opposing financial approaches, seek common ground with shared goals.
Our perceptions about money impact our relationship with it—work with your partner to identify your financial boundaries and set guideposts that work for both of you.
Not sure how to start talking about money with a partner? Start simple, stay honest and avoid judgement.
Want to learn more? Check out:
A guide to approaching shared finances with your partner
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